This question has been vexing us since the dawn of time. It sounds like such a basic fundamental thing. Love…we all want and NEED it! But all to often it eludes us and we can’t figure out why. Well, here’s my take on it…
Holding on to trauma and heartache gives us a fear of intimacy and love, because it gives us a false sense of control. Intimacy makes us vulnerable, and can potentially open us up to more hurt.
But the only way to receive the love that we desire is to release the trauma, and give up control and be vulnerable again.
After a painful experience we try to protect our hearts by building an energetic wall, also known as a Heart-wall. While that may protect us from heartache, it also prevents us from giving and receiving love in a balanced way.
It makes having a healthy relationship impossible.
But we crave that connection that only a partner can give. We wonder why we can’t find someone. We look and we look. Maybe go on lots of dates, but it never works out.
If we don’t release the wall and allow ourselves to be truly vulnerable again, we will never find what we are really looking for.
We then begin to believe there is something wrong with us, which leads to feeling unworthy and unlovable.
It can evolve into an obsession, where we fall into toxic relationships or settle for less than we deserve, just to have someone. But you know deep down it’s not what you want.
Why does this happen? Because energetically we are sending out signals of desperation and neediness, and that just feels icky. We also may have trust issues that make us look and feel like we are crazy because we are always suspicious.
The question is: Are you willing to let all that shit go, so you can attract the right person?
It can be scary, because our conscious mind tells us that we will just end up being hurt again. But if we stay where we are, we will never have a loving balanced relationship.
The good news is that there is a way to release that heart-wall! Through the Emotion Code it is possible to release ALL those trapped emotions that have built up in layers. I can figure out what your subconscious has built up there to “protect” your heart and release it for you so YOU don’t need to sit down and figure it out!
And once it’s gone, you will enjoy not just balance in romantic relationships, but also with family, friends, and co-workers.
You owe it to yourself to improve the quality of your relationships so book a session today to get started! You won’t regret it!